đ Move for MORE: Shift your mindset, and approach exercise differently
Removing numbers (scale, measurement, photos) away from exercise can take a lot of time, b/c we've been taught that aesthetics should be our main focus when it comes to exercise. But bodies change and shift over a lifetime, how can we create a compassionate relationship with exercise that exceeds focusing on our outer shell. So that we can do it and adjust it- for a lifetime?
In these short videos, I'll be teaching you how.
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REFRAME: If you hate exercise, try thinking about it this way
If your only connection with exercise is it feeling like a punishment,
Understand that it may be hard to âfind your whyâ for doing it. To find ENJOYMENT in it.First, of all- if thatâs you-I want you to treat yourself with kindness b/c no one I know
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REFRAME: Discipline
Morning Walk thoughts on the word "discipline"
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REFRAME: What comes up for you when you hear the word "force"
FORCE:
What does it mean to you,
what images does it bring up?
How has the definition changed for you over time?
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A client and I dived into how the word shows up in her life:
âI have to FORCE myself to workoutâ
Or
âIf I donât FORCE myself to workout, then it doesnât happenâ etc.
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So we examined... -
REFRAME: Non-scale Victories
Language tweaks.
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When it comes to healing our relationship with exercise, one of the things we examine is our language around it.
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Hereâs an example of using 3 words, when one would suffice.
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Non Scale Victories.
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Letâs take two words to the chopping block and ONLY call them victories.
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REMINDER// REFRAME: Exercise can bring up a lot of emotions
While filming today, I said, "rotate your hips and throw your arms up like you're throwing a potato sack over your shoulder"
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This wouldn't have stopped anyone if they knew my quirky side- but it stopped me mentally. "being a potato sack" (I know, stay with me) reminded me of a relationship I on... -
REMINDER//REFRAME : notice when things get 'easier' when the process is slow
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REFRAMING: Consistency
What does it means when we explore (and expand) our idea of consistency?
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Hate Running? Ask Yourself These Questions
You just signed up for a 5K⌠but you hate running. Now what?"
Last week, a client asked me: âI hate running, but Iâve always wanted to enjoy it⌠How can I?â
If youâve ever felt this way, youâre not alone. And in this video, Iâm going to walk you through the exact questions I asked my clientâso ...
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RECOGNIZE: It's understandable why you hate exercise.
I don't think of these things as excuses, I think these are valid reasons for feeling the way (you might) feel about exercise.
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RECOGNIZE: It's been focused on aesthetics
You might find it odd as you skim through the subscription that workouts are named "Betty" or "gummi bear"
I did this intentionally when starting the channel. I didn't want the focus to be on how a workout can 'change or fix' your body. I wanted it to be about more.
When workouts are named "ab ... -
LEARN: 5 ways to make your daily walks more enjoyable
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LEARN: how to show up happy, sad, slow and fast.
When I offer a movement option to clients, and they tell me "no" or that's not right for my body today, it makes me happy (not that their job is to make me happy) BUT what I know is that they are starting to get a feel for what feels okay for their body on different days.
when they are grieving,... -
LEARN: How 'meh' feels like in your body
We ALL have feelings and Emotions-
And being able to recognize those feelings is important when it comes to healing your relationship with exercise.
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A 1:1 client came to the session last week feeling âmehâ so we grabbed our walking sticks and map and explored âwhat that felt likeâ for them.
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LEARN: how to adjust and set boundries
I delete all social media from my phone on the weekends.
Iâve been doing this for over 6 months now and so far (in my life at this time) it works for me to continue to show up for the business.
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I tried other ways that worked for other people, but none of them worked for me.
I knew I had to find... -
LEARN: how to develop a body awareness External/Internal Factors: Puppy Lights
When I get asked âwhere do I even begin, when it comes to liking exercise?â
I start with empathy-
Understanding how and why were hereâŚ
And one (1) of those reasons is that weâve been told that "external indicators are wiser than we are"
In this video, I tell a story about my daughter associating ... -
START: what is an example of a non-diet progression?
Recently, I had a client say that they have "less fear than I used to about getting up & down from the groundâ
This is HUGE!
This is progress, but it may not be what youâre used to seeing in the #fitspo world.
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This is FUNCTIONAL-
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I donât have to show you a picture, in order for you to FEEL w... -
START: Breaking the rules.
I used to loathe writing until I made it my own. I think that my exploration with writing has a lot of parallels with healing your relationship with exercise.
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START: Allow your workouts to be easy, fun and short.
one of the things that can help you (if you're having trouble getting started with working out on a particular day is...)
Allowing ease (or asking yourself how you can incorporate ease
Another thing can be adding play- allowing your workout/movement session to be FUN and then..
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START by: Releasing the expectations of others & showing up however you are
When I first began teaching group fitness in 2010, I used to think I was begin kind by telling the participants to 'grab their equipment (whatever was needed) and a smile and ...blah blah blah.
Now, as I've grown leading fitness, I have shifted my message to "bring whatever emotion you what, what... -
START: 'resting' with this one move: LOOK UP
Learn new ways-
By shifting your gaze
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When youâre learning to approach exercise differently- practice taking that rest break is important.
But how do we do that?By first practicing âthe pauseâ
And hereâs one way to do so.Next time youâre outside walking
Stop.
Gain your footing & balance and... -
START: to embrace the path & enjoy the process
The other day, I was walking with my kiddo (another adult) and 4 more kids.
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We were encouraging them ALL to walk to an endpoint (the playground) but they kept stopping and playing with ice puddles and sticks.
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âLetâs get goinâ I would sayâŚ
And then, after about 5-10 minutes, I gave up, but in ... -
START: How to have a back and forth discussion with your internal dialogue
Letâs say youâre thinking about working out- and have a hesitancy to do so-And then some random workout quote pops in your head âa workout is only 4% of your dayâ or âno pain, no gainâ And you start to think âawwww crap- you suckâ TRY THIS:
Trying having a back and forth dialogue with yourselfâa...